August 15, 2011 by Daisy Rose
Guaranteed Warning Signs Of A Breakup – Be Forewarned
No one wants the rug pulled out from under them and be blindsided by an unexpected breakup. Breaking up is hard enough when you see it coming, if you haven’t seen it coming it can be devastating. The fact of the matter is that more often than not there are signs of trouble. We miss the signs because they were well hidden or we just didn’t want to see them. If you want to make sure that that doesn’t happen to you (again) here are some guaranteed warning signs of a breakup.
When looking over this list you do have to keep in mind what is going on in your life. Even though these things can be signs that your partner isn’t really committed to the relationship and is ready to leave, they can also be signs of financial stress, or stress at work, depression, or some health issues. While it’s important to keep your eyes open for changes in our partners behavior, you also have to be careful that if you see some of these signs that you don’t jump to conclusions and start making accusations… that can create far more problems for you and could cause the very breakup you want to avoid:
Here is a list of some of the most common signs that there may be some problems in your relationship:
1. If your partner suddenly loses interest in being intimate with you, it could be a sign of trouble. As stated above, you should look at the situation as a whole and take other possible factors into consideration. But, if after looking for other alternatives and not being able to find any, you may have to seriously consider the possibility that there is something going on. Very often when a partner loses interest in sex it’s because they are seeing someone else and getting their physical needs met elsewhere.
2. If your partner doesn’t seem that interested in spending time with you it could be a problem. If you can’t find any rational reason why they’re suddenly so busy you have to consider the possibility that they are just avoiding you. It could be because they know that the two of you need to talk and they are putting it off or it could be that they are spending time with someone else. Either way, it’s something that you should talk with them about.
3.Is your partner suddenly more secretive and protective of their phone or their computer? If they suddenly carry their cell phone with them into the bathroom or take their laptop in the next room it’s very likely an indication that they are talking with someone and they don’t want you to know about it.
The fact of the matter is that any change in the way your partner acts towards you is a potential cause for concern. Always keep an open mind and try to find other explanations for their behavior but if you don’t know why they are acting differently you should ask them. Hopefully if there is something going on they will be big enough to tell you to your face. Now that you know the guaranteed warning signs of a breakup you won’t be blindsided by an unexpected breakup again.
Source: Dr Amor